Confidence isn’t something you’re magically born with. It’s built, especially when you’re out there networking and trying to open doors. Ever get sweaty palms or freeze up before talking to someone new? You’re not alone. The key is to make confidence a system, not a feeling.
First, prepare a simple intro. Nothing fancy, just one or two lines about who you help or what you’re building. Practice saying it until you don’t trip over your words. That little bit of prep stops you from fumbling in the moment.
Second, remind yourself: nobody’s expecting you to be perfect. Most people are nervous, too. Instead of worrying about impressing everyone, shift your mindset to curiosity. Be genuinely interested in them. You’ll forget your nerves if you’re focused on learning about the other person.
Third, set tiny goals. Don’t aim to “work the room.” Start by having just one or two good conversations. Success is about quality, not quantity, one great connection beats ten awkward handshakes.
Fourth, follow up after. Send a quick message or DM referencing something you discussed. The more you do this, the less intimidating it all feels, and momentum builds your confidence.
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